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So what is this toxic masculinity thing anyhow?
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From the cite I posted earlier....
So, we used to teach boys to be "gentlemen", and that would, of course, preclude "violence, (improper) sex, status and aggression", but GOD FORBID we do that anymore, because it might keep Johnny from thinking he needs to cut off his penis and wear dresses and makeup.
Isn't that what this is all about? To destroy traditional gender roles? To cause gender to be more "fluid"?
ETA: The "Good Men Project"The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.
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Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostSheeeeesh!!!!!!
OK.... let's cut to the quick.
You're right, Carpe. You're ALWAYS right. Why do we even bother trying to say otherwise?
No one has responded to the points that have been made several times. All we get is this knee-jerk "toxic masculinity doesn't exist - bad words - liberal plot - broad brush." The fact that all of this is being inconsistently applied to other words/concepts doesn't register - The fact that it is being inconsistently applied male vs. female doesn't register.
We see the same kind of dialogue around "white privilege," "inherent bias," and "systemic racism." Somehow, all of these are trigger words because apparently the right has been "victimized" (i.e., painted by too broad a brush) by them? So best to deny they even exist as a reality, and insist, despite any evidence to the contrary, that they are real phenomena in our society today. A simple dialogue/discussion about them is not even possible. I have every expectation that my use of those words in this post will trigger the start of another pig pile - and I will be responsible because I had the audacity to use the words.
Well - I know these are real phenomena. I know they are large-scale problems. Burying our heads in the sand, sticking our fingers in our ears, and screaming "liberal plot" doesn't make them go away. And, as they say, if you're not part of the solution, there's a good chance that you are part of the problem.The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostYour frustration is understood, CP. What you are expressing is essentially my impression as well. It doesn't matter how irrational the position is, and what arguments are put forward to show the weakness of the position - most of the folks here need to be always right - so they will reject/resist anything that doesn't fit into their world.
No one has responded to the points that have been made several times. All we get is this knee-jerk "toxic masculinity doesn't exist - bad words - liberal plot - broad brush." The fact that all of this is being inconsistently applied to other words/concepts doesn't register - The fact that it is being inconsistently applied male vs. female doesn't register.
We see the same kind of dialogue around "white privilege," "inherent bias," and "systemic racism." Somehow, all of these are trigger words because apparently the right has been "victimized" (i.e., painted by too broad a brush) by them? So best to deny they even exist as a reality, and insist, despite any evidence to the contrary, that they are real phenomena in our society today.
Well - I know they are real phenomena. I know they are large-scale problems. Burying our heads in the sand, sticking our fingers in our ears, and screaming "liberal plot" doesn't make them go away. And, as they say, if you're not part of the solution, there's a good chance that you are part of the problem.The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.
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Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostThe ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostThat is a well-written description - and aligns well with what I have been saying. Thanks for sharing it.The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.
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Originally posted by seer View PostIf you watched it did you consider the actions and language toxic?
However, if you took the exact same behavior and put it in a male boarding school with middle-schoolers, different story.The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostFrom the cite I posted earlier....
So, we used to teach boys to be "gentlemen", and that would, of course, preclude "violence, (improper) sex, status and aggression", but GOD FORBID we do that anymore, because it might keep Johnny from thinking he needs to cut off his penis and wear dresses and makeup.
Isn't that what this is all about?
Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostTo destroy traditional gender roles?
Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostTo cause gender to be more "fluid"?
Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostETA: The "Good Men Project"The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostYou're right.The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostNo. And I'll add that the fact that you think these things means you've pretty much misunderstood everything I've said - a...The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.
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Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostAnd it totally escapes you that this phrase "can easily be misunderstood to be wildly insulting, even bigoted"?
Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostDo you think that was accidental?
Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostDo you think it's wise?The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostI love you, man, but I'm not looking at you as the subject matter expert on 'toxic masculinity' - you are expressing your opinions, as you are entitled to do.The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy...returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Martin Luther King
I would unite with anybody to do right and with nobody to do wrong. Frederick Douglas
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostIn this case - it is. It's kinda hard for a women to engage in "toxic masculinity."
In other words, there is nothing inherently "masculine" about being a sexist, or a jerk, so describing those acts as "toxic masculinity" is a misnomer.
Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostYou are assuming/guessing with no basis. While it has never happened, I would like to think that I would affirm it if my boys were actually engaging in it, and deny it if they weren't.Some may call me foolish, and some may call me odd
But I'd rather be a fool in the eyes of man
Than a fool in the eyes of God
From "Fools Gold" by Petra
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostI don't believe I have ever claimed to be a SME on "toxic masculinity." What I am expressing are indeed my opinions. They are informed opinions - and so far I've seen nothing that makes me think they are off-track. As I said, people seem to be so busy reacting, they haven't even responded to the points made.
(oooops - I almost included a 'shrug' emoji)The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.
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