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Originally posted by Teallaura View PostFraud is then the issue - not duress. Caveat emptor. If you were expecting a contract to be valid then you make danged sure the signing is witnessed. The problem is that both things occur - women and men blackmailed into signing a contract they don't wish to and men and women lying to get out of a valid contract they signed.
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DO, you're doing the thing you're complaining about - making law based on the outliers. Yes, there are really bad decisions out there -and some are never corrected (see Terri Schivo). But you don't throw out the rationale merely because some idiot that shouldn't be on a bench makes an idiotic decision - or even when the fully adjudicated decision is really idiotic (See Roe v Wade, Plessy v Ferguson, et al). For every anecdote of a guy getting shafted, I can find equally horrible examples of women getting short shrifted (seriously, you (general) had kids - why are you so surprised you have to keep supporting them even after leaving their mother? But the examples of dead beat dads getting off lightly or even managing to punish the offended spouse are legion.).
The answer, once things get into court (which is best avoided), is to make judges accountable for their decisions (to an appellate court) and to freaking fix the standing rules back like they should be. Your anecdote should never have been granted standing since she wasn't injured - that's Junior College Law 101.
The ball is in both courts - divorce is like fire - it burns everyone it touches. The law can only sort out the rubble - the real answers lie elsewhere. And you will NEVER get anywhere assuming it is all the fault of one side or the other. Yes, feminism was hijacked back in the Sixties and that radicalism has done enormous damage - but you're very mistaken if you think there weren't also male hands in the cookie jar.
Myself, I think we should look at 'blame' only so much as to understand cause then FIX THE DANGED THING."He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - Jim Elliot
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Originally posted by Darth Ovious View PostEventually it will be fear that stops men from interacting from women in those situations. They will simply choose to stay away and not even try because they are afraid.
I'm always still in trouble again
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Originally posted by Teallaura View PostDO, you're doing the thing you're complaining about - making law based on the outliers. Yes, there are really bad decisions out there -and some are never corrected (see Terri Schivo). But you don't throw out the rationale merely because some idiot that shouldn't be on a bench makes an idiotic decision - or even when the fully adjudicated decision is really idiotic (See Roe v Wade, Plessy v Ferguson, et al). For every anecdote of a guy getting shafted, I can find equally horrible examples of women getting short shrifted (seriously, you (general) had kids - why are you so surprised you have to keep supporting them even after leaving their mother? But the examples of dead beat dads getting off lightly or even managing to punish the offended spouse are legion.).
The answer, once things get into court (which is best avoided), is to make judges accountable for their decisions (to an appellate court) and to freaking fix the standing rules back like they should be. Your anecdote should never have been granted standing since she wasn't injured - that's Junior College Law 101.
http://www.cafcusa.org/docs/DCSS_200...lity_study.pdf
Originally posted by cafcusaUsing this logic, we estimate that 64 percent of debtor parents in California who accrued arrears over a one-year period that generally corresponded with FFY 2000 had orders that were too high relative to their ability to pay.
https://nationalparentsorganization....r-jon-cryer-mu
Two and a Half Men star Jon Cryer must pay child support for his son of whom he has custody. Here's the opinion of the California appellate court.
The ball is in both courts - divorce is like fire - it burns everyone it touches. The law can only sort out the rubble - the real answers lie elsewhere. And you will NEVER get anywhere assuming it is all the fault of one side or the other. Yes, feminism was hijacked back in the Sixties and that radicalism has done enormous damage - but you're very mistaken if you think there weren't also male hands in the cookie jar.
Myself, I think we should look at 'blame' only so much as to understand cause then FIX THE DANGED THING.
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Originally posted by Jedidiah View PostThe term pro-choice is just a less nasty sounding way of saying pro-abortion. When we respond with pro-life we just open up all sorts of garbage that is not relevant to the question. I never claim to be pro-life, I am always anti-abortion. And when the "patriarchy" swallows the stupidity that feminists put forth they have already lost.
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"You're by far the worst poster on TWeb" and "TWeb's biggest liar" --starlight (the guy who says Stalin was a right-winger)
"Overall I would rate the withdrawal from Afghanistan as by far the best thing Biden's done" --Starlight
"Of course, human life begins at fertilization that’s not the argument." --Tassman
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Originally posted by rogue06 View PostHormones will almost always trump common sense.
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Originally posted by fm93 View Post
You act as if campus rape is a complete myth and has never ever occurred.
I'm always still in trouble again
"You're by far the worst poster on TWeb" and "TWeb's biggest liar" --starlight (the guy who says Stalin was a right-winger)
"Overall I would rate the withdrawal from Afghanistan as by far the best thing Biden's done" --Starlight
"Of course, human life begins at fertilization that’s not the argument." --Tassman
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Originally posted by Darth Ovious View PostYour statement here seems to suggest it is not possible for men to remain sexually inactive. Surely as Christians we shouldn't believe that since we believe that people shouldn't have sex before marriage.
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"You're by far the worst poster on TWeb" and "TWeb's biggest liar" --starlight (the guy who says Stalin was a right-winger)
"Overall I would rate the withdrawal from Afghanistan as by far the best thing Biden's done" --Starlight
"Of course, human life begins at fertilization that’s not the argument." --Tassman
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Originally posted by Darth Ovious View PostOK I guess you don't know what the divorce courts are like. As for the bit I bolded where did I say otherwise? Where did you get that impression? Check my previous post and I actually stated the opposite.
It's drivel to assume that all divorce courts are the same - or that they all err in only one direction. Thousands of good mothers lost custody over 'alienation of affection' which is pseudoscience bunk and was (and still is to an extent) embraced wildly by the courts. Courts of all kinds are run by humans and they ALL share in the ability - sometimes near glee - of committing error. You (personal) aren't the only one ever wronged in court.
Originally posted by DOWhat if the judges decisions are well within the law? Since we are on the issue of child support then here you go.
http://www.cafcusa.org/docs/DCSS_200...lity_study.pdf
I take it we can agree that it's mostly men who pay child support. Also there is the case of John Cryer who has full custody of his child 95% of the time and yet when he tried to get the child support order changed the judge denied it. So he has to pay child support to his ex-wife for a child that he takes care of.
https://nationalparentsorganization....r-jon-cryer-mu
Originally posted by DOSo much for the appellate court.
I already conceded that even fully adjudicated decisions can be wrong - but shooting people in the streets is worse than fixing the law/courts. Judges come in size human like everyone else - why is this a surprise to you? But only an appellate court has the power and the knowledge to effectively call judges to account. Do they fail sometimes? Heck yes - but they also succeed sometimes. It needs improvement - blaming feminists won't get that done.
Originally posted by DOYes, they are called white knights. We have a term for them. Doesn't make it any less an issue.
Originally posted by DOFixing it requires to change the laws in place that have been influenced by lies."He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - Jim Elliot
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Originally posted by rogue06 View PostHormones will almost always trump common sense."As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths." Isaiah 3:12
There is no such thing as innocence, only degrees of guilt.
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Originally posted by Raphael View PostWhen I was student, there was an estimate of there being atleast one rape per weekend at the on Campus residence. And we're not talking about a situation where there is any doubt about consent.
Some of my brother's Civil Engineering students put a stop to one that was going happen in an empty classroom (the girl was screaming loud enough to be heard)
The on campus residence also had an estimated 2 AK47's per bed, so there was no way campus security was going to try stop things.Veritas vos Liberabit<>< Learn Greek <>< Look here for an Orthodox Church in America<><Ancient Faith Radio
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Originally posted by Darth Executor View PostPorn and sex toys makes it easier than ever to satisfy hormonal urges without ever seeing a naked woman in real life.Veritas vos Liberabit<>< Learn Greek <>< Look here for an Orthodox Church in America<><Ancient Faith Radio
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Originally posted by Darth Ovious View PostYour statement here seems to suggest it is not possible for men to remain sexually inactive. Surely as Christians we shouldn't believe that since we believe that people shouldn't have sex before marriage.Micah 6:8 He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?
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Originally posted by rogue06 View PostMs. Magazine
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