Originally posted by Thoughtful Monk
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Somehow I think loving someone requires some degree of experience with them including their "bad / unlovable" features. God loves us despite knowing who we are. I don't know that on a social board like this you could really get to know anyone well enough to say you really know them. Certainly the news is full of people who got deceived on-line in that when they met they found the other was nothing like what the on-line posts would say.
Maybe I do define love to too high a standard. Probably because the word has become so overused that it is more meaningless. (I am suddenly curious to know when saying "I love my car" became acceptable speech.) Yes, I'm not really sure anyone on T-Web can really say they love me because my full person is not visible to them. Yes in face-to-face relationships, one can hide parts of themselves. However its harder to do because in face-to-face, you get all the visual and aural cues that are missing in a post.
Respect can be given immediately to someone. Most people respect the stranger they met on the street, the clerk in the store, the receptionist, the policeman, etc. The same applies to an on-line post. I try to respect the poster and respond assuming they meant well. If I can't, I've learned to walk away from the post rather than respond.
Bottom line: while not mentioned in the two passages, I hold respect is present because you can't practice those virtues and not have respect. So when you say people don't love when they respond to posts and I say people don't respect, it comes down to the same thing. People are not relating to others as God desires and therefore they have sinned against the other person and God.
Originally posted by Paprika
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