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Originally posted by rogue06 View PostIt is all about not putting yourself in any position where salacious gossip can take root. About being, as close as humanly possible, unquestionably above reproach.
That's why he was adamant about having his crusades publicly audited so there was no whiff of scandal. And what I would say is behind the Graham Rule as well.
And with that - I don't think repeating myself further is going to get anywhere. So I'll let you folks close it out and I'll practice my "I'm going to shut up now" skill!
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostAnd with all due respect to CP, if his 42-year marriage (Which is awesome! Working on 31 myself) is due to this rule...something is wrong.
Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostIt's part of why I've been happily married for over 42 years, have had ZERO scandals (and only two potential scandals which were quickly nipped in the bud, thanks to said policy), and my wife thinks the policy is good common sense. I care far more about what SHE thinks than some leftist internet poster* who claims to be a moderate!
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostThe man is basically saying, "Gee, I cannot be around a woman who's not my wife! What would people think?" That makes the other women basically sexual objects that, apparently, the person either cannot control themselves around, or thinks other people will think they cannot control themselves around.
In a business - it means a male boss cannot have a personnel review meeting with female subordinates, for no other reason than "they're female."
IMO, it's a ridiculous, and potentially harmful rule. I don't find it uplifting in the least. I find it degrading to the women is objectifies, and a pretty sad commentary on the people who feel they need to follow it.
That's why he was adamant about having his crusades publicly audited so there was no whiff of scandal. And what I would say is behind the Graham Rule as well.
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Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostIt honors the Lord.
Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostI'm far more concerned about honoring God than I am you.
But what do I know - I'm a heathen that is 97.3% wrong
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Originally posted by Zymologist View PostWhy not?
And with all due respect to CP, if his 42-year marriage (Which is awesome! Working on 31 myself) is due to this rule...something is wrong.
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostDig accepted! And I'm sure it honors your wife. It just doesn't honor anyone else...IMO
But you have the right to be wrong about this... so carry on
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Originally posted by Cow Poke View PostIt's part of why I've been happily married for over 42 years, have had ZERO scandals (and only two potential scandals which were quickly nipped in the bud, thanks to said policy), and my wife thinks the policy is good common sense. I care far more about what SHE thinks than some leftist internet poster* who claims to be a moderate!
This policy honors my wife.
*a friendly dig at Carpe, who, quite honestly, I think is more "left" than he likes to think he is or presents himself to be.
But you have the right to be wrong about this... so carry on
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Originally posted by Adrift View PostYou're wrong. It's not discriminatory nor unjust. It's used by both men and women in ministry towards the opposite sex. It's not based on a spirit of fear, it's based on being wise as serpents and innocent as doves. It isn't treating all women as pariahs, it's offering people the respect they deserve, and making it known that you expect the same back. You've twisted the whole thing in your head the opposite of what it was intended for. It's not a sad commentary on our society, it's acknowledging that people are sinful by nature, and that accountability should be in place as it is in so many other places within and without the church. You're calling something that's good, evil, and you're completely off base in your accusations that it's says something negative about a church's belief in the confidence or respect of their fellow human beings. You're just wrong, carpedm, and that's it.
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Originally posted by Adrift View PostYou're wrong. It's not discriminatory nor unjust. It's used by both men and women in ministry towards the opposite sex. It's not based on a spirit of fear, it's based on being wise as serpents and innocent as doves. It isn't treating all women as pariahs, it's offering people the respect they deserve, and making it known that you expect the same back. You've twisted the whole thing in your head the opposite of what it was intended for. It's not a sad commentary on our society, it's acknowledging that people are sinful by nature, and that accountability should be in place between as it is in so many other places within and without the church. You're calling something that's good, evil, and you're completely off base in your accusations that it's says something negative about a church's belief in the confidence or respect of their fellow human beings. You're just wrong, carpedm, and that's it.
This policy honors my wife.
*a friendly dig at Carpe, who, quite honestly, I think is more "left" than he likes to think he is or presents himself to be.
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostIf you cannot stand the heat...
Seriously...I'm not saying that a person, male or female, should not take precautions if they are dealing with someone where they think there is a likely problem. Most of us can see them coming a mile away. We used to call them "vocation busters" and they came in both genders.
What I AM saying is that a policy that paints all women with the same brush, based solely on their gender and the fear of being accused, is simply discriminatory and unjust. In a spirit of "fear of what might be said," I treat all women as if they are some form of pariah that needs to be kept at hands-length or supervised, or it treats all women as "someone I may not be able to resist myself around." It's a sad commentary on not only society - but also the person who feels compelled to live that philosophy. It doesn't say a great deal about their confidence in, or respect for, their fellow human beings.
In this discussion - I have been accused of being "uncharitable." In reality, if you think about what prompts this philosohy, it is that philosophy that is uncharitable.
Next?
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostIf you cannot stand the heat...
Seriously...I'm not saying that a person, male or female, should not take precautions if they are dealing with someone where they think there is a likely problem. Most of us can see them coming a mile away. We used to call them "vocation busters" and they came in both genders.
What I AM saying is that a policy that paints all women with the same brush, based solely on their gender and the fear of being accused, is simply discriminatory and unjust. In a spirit of "fear of what might be said," I treat all women as if they are some form of pariah that needs to be kept at hands-length or supervised, or it treats all women as "someone I may not be able to resist myself around." It's a sad commentary on not only society - but also the person who feels compelled to live that philosophy. It doesn't say a great deal about their confidence in, or respect for, their fellow human beings.
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Originally posted by carpedm9587 View PostIf you cannot stand the heat...
Seriously...I'm not saying that a person, male or female, should not take precautions if they are dealing with someone where they think there is a likely problem. Most of us can see them coming a mile away. We used to call them "vocation busters" and they came in both genders.
What I AM saying is that a policy that paints all women with the same brush, based solely on their gender and the fear of being accused, is simply discriminatory and unjust. In a spirit of "fear of what might be said," I treat all women as if they are some form of pariah that needs to be kept at hands-length or supervised, or it treats all women as "someone I may not be able to resist myself around." It's a sad commentary on not only society - but also the person who feels compelled to live that philosophy. It doesn't say a great deal about their confidence in, or respect for, their fellow human beings.
In this discussion - I have been accused of being "uncharitable." In reality, if you think about what prompts this philosohy, it is that philosophy that is uncharitable.
Edit: and as for being uncharitable, yeah, I think the bolded clears that up pretty well.Last edited by Zymologist; 02-21-2018, 04:11 PM.
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