Originally posted by carpedm9587
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Either that or I get immediately associated with the "other side." I can be sweet and nice and "an example" for weeks on end, and I usually make zero progress.
But if I begin by calling out the dynamic - naming it - even if it ticks people off - I am more likely to get one or two willing ears. I'm not sure why that is true - but it is almost universally true - in my experience.
So I do what works...
So I do what works...
(while the world burns and children die because we're discussing stuff)
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