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"As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths." Isaiah 3:12
There is no such thing as innocence, only degrees of guilt.
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Originally posted by KingsGambit View PostWell, I think this is the first time AP has ever been called a feminist."As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths." Isaiah 3:12
There is no such thing as innocence, only degrees of guilt.
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Back to what was said:
Women, please don't put all your worth in whether or not you are having sex. The purity culture means well, but is extremely damaging. I know this first hand. I haven't had sex before marriage, but I also have had to deal with major baggage about my worth and also my future husband's worth based on sexual experience. If you choose to not have sex, do it because having sex is 1. a sin, 2. extremely damaging non-marriage relationships 3. bad for society in general, 4. leads men to not commit, and 5. Leads to other sins, such as using contraceptive.
Men, if you REALLY want to show a woman her worth, marry her and don't withhold anything from her.
Women, if you REALLY want to show a man his worth, marry him and don't withhold anything from him.
If you say "you are beautiful, and I'm willing to wait for marriage for you" but then in marriage you expect her to give you sex without giving *herself*, this is asking for a false thing.
When we use contraceptives, we are not giving our entire selves. Men, by using a condom or letting your wife use birth control, you are asking for sex without giving your entire self, which is your fertility and the ability to creative life (Imago Dei). You are saying "I want your body but not your whole self". It is a cheap cop out.
I'm sorry, but when I saw the usual flowery "romance a woman, show her her worth, etc" and "don't have sex before marriage", I had to add this. Have sex in marriage. Sex is giving, not withholding. Have REAL sex in marriage. Stop acting like a single person in a marriage and playing it safe.
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I really don't even like kids very much. But I know that marriage (and therefore, sex) is about giving yourself 100% and being open to that natural possibility. Therefore, I will accept children from the Lord if He gives them.Visit my website! I have cookies. http://www.amyelizabethatkins.com
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