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Rape Culture: Why Yes can mean No
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Originally posted by Darth Ovious View PostEventually it will be fear that stops men from interacting from women in those situations. They will simply choose to stay away and not even try because they are afraid.
And guys, you can only lay so much on the feminist doorstep. Truth is, many males have willingly capitalized on the 'free love' culture and gone further by aiding and abetting the cultural descent. I suspect it isn't 'either/or' it's 'both/and'."He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - Jim Elliot
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Originally posted by Darth Ovious View Post
I don't think it will work effectively, even pre-nups are thrown out of court because they were "signed under duress" or whatever liberal garbage speak you want to put in it's place.
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Originally posted by Teallaura View PostShe's wrong to call it rape but she's quite correct that girls and even women are often coerced through social and peer pressure. In an extreme, where duress exists (rare but possible) it would indeed be rape because no ceases to be a viable response (due to the duress). But the real issue is the pressure put on girls to have sex - and that pressure is not strictly speaking rape - but it is coercion and it is a very real and sad phenomenon.
Originally posted by Zymologist View PostAny liberals care to define "rape culture"?
Or on a more generic level, acting as if rape is something casual to be tossed around, such as describing large margins of victory as "We friggin' RAPED the other team!"
With all that being said, I believe that real men don't put themselves or anyone else in situations of uncertainty at all. It's not easy to figure out whether a drunken "Yes" indicated genuine consent or not, but why would anyone have drunken sex in the first place? I thought sex was supposed to be something mutually enjoyed by both people; why would anyone ruin their own experience by drinking and thereby not fully remembering it the next morning?Last edited by fm93; 05-08-2015, 08:48 PM.Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow.--Isaiah 1:17
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Originally posted by Teallaura View PostAnd guys, you can only lay so much on the feminist doorstep.
What else should we expect but defensiveness from someone who uses 'sexist' as a club?
It was the feminists who organised movements with a main aim being to deregulate sex; only now - after seeing decades of devastation after destroying the restraints on men's behaviour - are they only dimly beginning to realise that maybe it was a bad idea, when they were warned over and over.
Originally posted by Christianbookworm View PostEducation^3. Teach girls and boys that being assertive is a good thing. Teach teens and young adults that one should be 100% sure that they want to have sex before consenting to it. And the person asking needs to make sure they don't come off as coercive.
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Originally posted by fm93 View Post
These issues go way beyond mere "liberals vs conservatives," but anyhow, I'd say rape culture involves, for instance, fraternity members gathering near female dorms and chanting disgusting things like "No means yes, yes means anal!" and "My name is Jack, I'm a necrophiliac, I [censored] dead women and fill them with my semen." Or hearing accounts from rape victims and dismissing them with responses like "You were dressed a certain way, therefore you were asking for it" or "But you're so ugly, you should feel lucky that someone would want to rape you."
Or on a more generic level, acting as if rape is something casual to be tossed around, such as describing large margins of victory as "We friggin' RAPED the other team!"
With all that being said, I believe that real men don't put themselves or anyone else in situations of uncertainty at all. It's not easy to figure out whether a drunken "Yes" indicated genuine consent or not, but why would anyone have drunken sex in the first place? I thought sex was supposed to be something mutually enjoyed by both people; why would anyone ruin their own experience by drinking and thereby not fully remembering it the next morning?
But thanks for defining it. I've never actually seen anyone do those things. Edit: Rather, I should say I'd never heard of those things.Last edited by Zymologist; 05-08-2015, 10:11 PM.I DENOUNCE DONALD J. TRUMP AND ALL HIS IMMORAL ACTS.
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Originally posted by Paprika View Post
What else should we expect but defensiveness from someone who uses 'sexist' as a club?
It was the feminists who organised movements with a main aim being to deregulate sex; only now - after seeing decades of devastation after destroying the restraints on men's behaviour - are they only dimly beginning to realise that maybe it was a bad idea, when they were warned over and over.
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Originally posted by Paprika View Post
Seriously? You think that more education is going to solve the problem?Last edited by Christianbookworm; 05-08-2015, 10:56 PM.If it weren't for the Resurrection of Jesus, we'd all be in DEEP TROUBLE!
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Originally posted by Teallaura View PostSince we are talking about out of wedlock sex I'm having a hard time thinking this is a bad thing.
And guys, you can only lay so much on the feminist doorstep. Truth is, many males have willingly capitalized on the 'free love' culture and gone further by aiding and abetting the cultural descent. I suspect it isn't 'either/or' it's 'both/and'.
I suppose I take issue with your language arguing that men have willingly capitalised on this as if to say that men as a general group are partly responsible for all this, when it was mostly third wave feminists who were responsible for advancing this culture.
ADDITION: I wanted to provide an example about what I mean in my first point. I am going to link to a scientist named Scott Aaronson in regards to his experience in going through the education system and attending sexual assault classes that are held on campuses across America. The comment number here is 171 that he made on his blog under the following article.
http://www.scottaaronson.com/blog/?p...comment-326664
Originally posted by Scott AaronsonYou can call that my personal psychological problem if you want, but it was strongly reinforced by everything I picked up from my environment: to take one example, the sexual-assault prevention workshops we had to attend regularly as undergrads, with their endless lists of all the forms of human interaction that “might be” sexual harassment or assault, and their refusal, ever, to specify anything that definitely wouldn’t be sexual harassment or assault. I left each of those workshops with enough fresh paranoia and self-hatred to last me through another year.“I didn’t go to religion to make me happy. I always knew a bottle of Port would do that. If you want a religion to make you feel really comfortable, I certainly don’t recommend Christianity.” - C.S. Lewis
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Originally posted by Teallaura View PostFYI: No contract is valid if signed under duress - and never has been. That's the standard of the legal system and not unique to liberals. FYI: no contract should be valid if a party is coerced.“I didn’t go to religion to make me happy. I always knew a bottle of Port would do that. If you want a religion to make you feel really comfortable, I certainly don’t recommend Christianity.” - C.S. Lewis
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Originally posted by Paprika View PostAdolescents with alcohol.If it weren't for the Resurrection of Jesus, we'd all be in DEEP TROUBLE!
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Originally posted by fm93 View PostOr on a more generic level, acting as if rape is something casual to be tossed around, such as describing large margins of victory as "We friggin' RAPED the other team!"
but why would anyone have drunken sex in the first place? I thought sex was supposed to be something mutually enjoyed by both people; why would anyone ruin their own experience by drinking and thereby not fully remembering it the next morning?
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Originally posted by Christianbookworm View PostThat explains it. Their prefrontal cortex isn't even fully developed! But why should the boy be held responsible for the dumb decision they jointly made?
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Yeah, it's blatant hypocrisy, but that's how the feminists roll.
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Originally posted by Paprika View PostBecause males are evil, and females shouldn't be treated as responsible adults.
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Yeah, it's blatant hypocrisy, but that's how the feminists roll.If it weren't for the Resurrection of Jesus, we'd all be in DEEP TROUBLE!
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