Originally posted by Jesse
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I was born into a Christian family, and spent the first 20-something years of my life attending Church every Sunday and was a member of various interdenominational Christian groups. When I prayed for Jesus to come into my heart at the ages of 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 etc, I certainly didn't know what Christians generally thought about gay rights and abortion. I understand these are now big issues in the US, but I heard almost nothing at all ever about either issue when growing up in the Church here in New Zealand. Abortion is legal and regulated here, and while there are a few fringe Christian groups that are anti-abortion, that is not a mainstream position, and I don't recall ever hearing it mentioned in Church. I imagine that the topic of homosexuality must have been quite controversial within the church during my childhood, however any mention of homosexuality was presumably hidden from my ears as a child as the topic was deemed "not fit for the ears of children", and again I don't recall hearing it ever mentioned in Church. When the political issue of Civil-Unions for gay people came up, all the Christians who I knew supported it, seeing it as a step towards equality for a minority group who had been suffering prejudice, and saw it as their Christian duty to support the oppressed.
When I first found out due to talking to other Christians on the internet that some Christians in the world thought the bible should be interpreted as anti-gay I was amused by their weird exegesis and discussed the topic with them, because I loved to discuss different interpretations of the bible. When I first found out around age 30 that the majority of Christians thought the bible was anti-gay and that gay people shouldn't be able to marry, I was absolutely furious - I felt tricked as they had never ever told me that this was a widespread teaching of Christianity. I was initially utterly baffled: Wasn't the whole concept of unequal rights for minorities something that got solved over 100 years ago? (In my country at least) It was not something I felt I was able to in any way accept or agree with, just as I would have not been able to accept or agree with if they had sprung on me that Christians were all against black people marrying or against rights for Jews.
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