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Planet Fitness revokes woman's membership after transgender complaint
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Planet Fitness revokes woman's membership after transgender complaint
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Transgender feelings are more important than natural boundaries adhered to by 99.9% of the population"Some people feel guilty about their anxieties and regard them as a defect of faith but they are afflictions, not sins. Like all afflictions, they are, if we can so take them, our share in the passion of Christ." - That Guy Everyone Quotes
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Most transgender people aren't interested in assaulting anyone, but still boundaries should be respected. I'm a homosexual male and if I was barred from entering male locker rooms or even bathrooms I'd understand completely."Some people feel guilty about their anxieties and regard them as a defect of faith but they are afflictions, not sins. Like all afflictions, they are, if we can so take them, our share in the passion of Christ." - That Guy Everyone Quotes
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I used to have a membership at Planet Fitness.. its an okay place, but, come on, they have FREE PIZZA every Friday"Some people feel guilty about their anxieties and regard them as a defect of faith but they are afflictions, not sins. Like all afflictions, they are, if we can so take them, our share in the passion of Christ." - That Guy Everyone Quotes
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An article I read about this made it clear that this was talking about a locker room and that that changing rooms are single-person locked stalls. So there is no reason any transgender person would see something they shouldn't. (Though it left me a bit unclear on why they even bother to gender-segregate the locker room itself in the first place, so maybe I'm missing something?)
Also, I'm sure we can all agree that people can be just plain annoying:
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Originally posted by hamster View PostMost transgender people aren't interested in assaulting anyone, but still boundaries should be respected. I'm a homosexual male and if I was barred from entering male locker rooms or even bathrooms I'd understand completely.
Some places might have policies that would exclude or limit you on the basis of your orientation. Most places don't. (And I think that's good. I hope you do as well!)
You say you would accept and understand if you were banned. That's generous; seriously. The question I'm begging to ask -- would you accept and understand a place that decided you would REMAIN welcome, and would rather enforce their established boundaries against being disruptive? That's what happened here. Isn't PlanetFitness due some understanding as well, for their boundaries against disruption of other members, and expectation of how members should manage any complaints?
To get a comparable situation, you have to consider a place where you are welcome, and not banned; and then one individual cannot accept this, and disrupts the establishment to try and change their welcoming and inclusive boundaries in order to exclude you.
Cheers -- sylas
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Originally posted by sylas;1710is the idiot notion that you can create an atmosphere that offends no one and respects the needs ofall. PF chose a tiny minority over 50% of the pop. Bad call.8I have a bit of a double take at this post. I appreciate your irenic and unaggressive approach; but don't you have the example backwards? The person not accepting established boundaries, in this case, was the person who kicked up an enormous and disruptive fuss because they didn't like the boundaries that were in place.
Some places might have policies that would exclude or limit you on the basis of your orientation. Most places don't. (And I think that's good. I hope you do as well!)
You say you would accept and understand if you were banned. That's generous; seriously. The question I'm begging to ask -- would you accept and understand a place that decided you would REMAIN welcome, and would rather enforce their established boundaries against being disruptive? That's what happened here. Isn't PlanetFitness due some understanding as well, for their boundaries against disruption of other members, and expectation of how members should manage any complaints?
To get a comparable situation, you have to consider a place where you are welcome, and not banned; and then one individual cannot accept this, and disrupts the establishment to try and change their welcoming and inclusive boundaries in order to exclude you.
Cheers -- sylas"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - Jim Elliot
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Originally posted by Teallaura View PostActually, Hammy didn't address the main concern - that an opportunistic rapist will take advantage of the easy access to women when they are vulerable. Planet Fitness is putting their politics ahead of their female member's safety.
Hence I'll start by simply agreeing that Hammy didn't address that issue. What I found a tad odd was that he spoke of accepting people who would exclude him, based on his sexuality; where the issue here is whether a company should be permitted to be ACCEPTING of trans individuals.
The homosexual issue is perhaps easier. It's generous of Hammy to be accepting of people who would exclude him. I presume he'd also be accepting of companies or organizations that would welcome him and make an effort to establish an environment in which HE felt safe and accepted.
Now let's look at the case of transgender individuals. So what of a company who makes an effort to establish an environment in which transgender individuals are safe and accepted? Or a company that enforces their own chosen boundaries against disruption of other members by a disgruntled individual who returns daily to stir up some issue that have with that policy?
Is that a reasonable stance for a company to make? Should we permit such companies to exist? You don't have to give them your business, of course; that is entirely your choice. But is it appropriate to be tolerant of THEIR choice to adopt policies accepting and welcoming of trans individuals?
If there was a credible case that this really did make women less safe -- perhaps not. But I don't think there's the slightest evidence for that, frankly. Concerns about men pretending to be women to take advantage of transgender tolerant organizations in order to engage in assault or other abuse appear to be entirely made up. No matter what policy is in place for trans individuals; men can already dress up and pretend to be women -- and this difference is not ambiguous. Such folks DON'T qualify as identifying as women. This difference between pretense and genuine self-identification would be easy to show if an actual instance came up.
So honestly, I don't think there's the slightest basis for saying PlanetFitness is putting their politics ahead of their female member's safety. The policies in place are -- according to all available evidence I have seen -- ones that work best for the safety of all members. I repeat, however; you are not a bad person if you choose to avoid anywhere with this kind of policy. You are entirely within your rights to keep yourself safe and feeling safe as best you possibly can.
So the question is... when it comes to accepting boundaries. Can we accept a company that adopts policies and boundaries against disruption to members by a disgruntled individual returning daily to stir up the matter? It seems to me that this becomes a safety issue also.
Cheers -- sylas
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Women outnumber transgendered people. If women are made uncomfortable in their bathroom by the presence of a transgender male, why do the feelings and comfort of the women not matter? Why do the feelings of a few (an extreme minority) take precedence over the feelings of a large percentage of the population?
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