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Originally posted by Psychic Missile View PostI don't like it much either, but for different reasons.
Because it's rude.
Because it bothers someone.
Because of systemic sexism and the objectification of women.
Saying hello if you want to greet someone or get to know them is great. I have no issue with that.
1. A man sees a beautiful women and decides he wants to say hello to her and see a bit of what she's like.
2. A man sees a beautiful women and decides she looks pretty and decides to stare.
One is getting to know her, the other is seeing her as an object. Ironically, you seem to be wanting men to do number 2 vs number 1. I would think getting to know beyond her physical appearance is far better than admiring her as some sort of object. Yep the modern feminist movement... turning women into objects to admire for years now. Funny thing is that my husband decided to do the first thing. I wasn't aware he was a sexist. I'll be sure to let him know about that (he could use a little bit of a laugh tonight).Last edited by lilpixieofterror; 11-01-2014, 09:11 PM."The man from the yacht thought he was the first to find England; I thought I was the first to find Europe. I did try to found a heresy of my own; and when I had put the last touches to it, I discovered that it was orthodoxy."
GK Chesterton; Orthodoxy
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Originally posted by Psychic Missile View PostSaying hi to people walking by on a city sidewalk is not a good way to go about getting to know them."The man from the yacht thought he was the first to find England; I thought I was the first to find Europe. I did try to found a heresy of my own; and when I had put the last touches to it, I discovered that it was orthodoxy."
GK Chesterton; Orthodoxy
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Originally posted by Psychic Missile View PostWomen in our society are reduced to sexual or aesthetic objects.
Focusing on sexual or aesthetic qualities in an inappropriate context, in this case a neutral context, promotes that reduction."As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths." Isaiah 3:12
There is no such thing as innocence, only degrees of guilt.
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Originally posted by Psychic Missile View PostSaying hi to people walking by on a city sidewalk is not a good way to go about getting to know them."As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths." Isaiah 3:12
There is no such thing as innocence, only degrees of guilt.
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Originally posted by myth View PostSam, I meant articulation in the sense of describing the totality of your perspective. Later on (as now) when your comments were more expansive I had a better understanding of your thinking. But here's why I was a little confused. PM stated that saying hello is harassment when he strung these sentences together:
Then you responded (on the same page) by stating that neither you nor PM had said any such thing:
I have noticed a difference between North and South, and that's why I made my first comment in the thread. But I am interested in your perspective, which I hadn't given much thought, about why women would appear so aloof in public places. Even so, that doesn't have much bearing on the motive behind simply saying hello, which is what I think some of us from the South are arguing. I do agree that if women live in an environment that they have to act like this (routinely) in public then we do have more work to do as a society.
You admitted to Zymologist that you understood why the clarification was needed. So, I hope you don't think I was reading from a different perspective and glossing over details. I do (usually) pay attention. ;)
I don't think anyone is talking about situations where a person is standing around, hanging out, or mingling in a room, to be clear: the type of interaction we're talking about is walking through a public place, usually a street, without indicating that you seek to engage others.
Jessica Williams of "The Daily Show" did a segment on this topic that bears watching (though, being "The Daily Show," there are a few obscenities."I wonder about the trees. / Why do we wish to bear / Forever the noise of these / More than another noise / So close to our dwelling place?" — Robert Frost, "The Sound of Trees"
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Originally posted by Darth Executor View PostUmm, we were talking about saying "hello" to somebody. Are you claiming men should never say hello to women they find attractive and would like to meet?
1. Staring at women = no objectification of women.
2. Asking women how they are doing because you find them attractive = objectification of women.
Of course, I would think that staring at somebody for their physical appearance vs trying to know them beyond their physical appearance would be more objectification, but hey... this is is PM we're talking about. Modern feminism, turning woman into objects for men to stare at the world over.Last edited by lilpixieofterror; 11-01-2014, 09:18 PM."The man from the yacht thought he was the first to find England; I thought I was the first to find Europe. I did try to found a heresy of my own; and when I had put the last touches to it, I discovered that it was orthodoxy."
GK Chesterton; Orthodoxy
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This new brand of liberal purtanism really is hilarious. PMS could give the Taliban a run for their money."As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths." Isaiah 3:12
There is no such thing as innocence, only degrees of guilt.
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Originally posted by lilpixieofterror View PostDo tell me, what is more the 'objectification of women':
1. A man sees a beautiful women and decides he wants to say hello to her and see a bit of what she's like.
2. A man sees a beautiful women and decides she looks pretty and decides to stare.
One is getting to know her, the other is seeing her as an object. Ironically, you seem to be wanting men to do number 2 vs number 1. I would think getting to know beyond her physical appearance is far better than admiring her as some sort of object. Yep the modern feminist movement... turning women into objects to admire for years now. Funny thing is that my husband decided to do the first thing. I wasn't aware he was a sexist. I'll be sure to let him know about that (he could use a little bit of a laugh tonight).
Originally posted by lilpixieofterror View PostAnd you know that, for a fact. What, you've never shared a random conversations with somebody around you? You must live a pretty sad and boring life...
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Originally posted by Psychic Missile View PostIf you think that the men in the video were taking the route of your item 1, I think you are misreading their intentions.
It's be better to strike up a conversation when someone isn't on their way to somewhere else. In line, in a store, in an elevator, almost anywhere else!"The man from the yacht thought he was the first to find England; I thought I was the first to find Europe. I did try to found a heresy of my own; and when I had put the last touches to it, I discovered that it was orthodoxy."
GK Chesterton; Orthodoxy
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Originally posted by Darth Executor View PostNo they're not.
Umm, we were talking about saying "hello" to somebody. Are you claiming men should never say hello to women they find attractive and would like to meet?
1) These men all wanted to meet this woman. They are all fools who think people walking by on a city sidewalk will stop and have a conversation.
2) These men found this women attractive. They are saying hello as a cat call, just like the other men in the video who chose different words.
Originally posted by Darth Executor View PostIf you don't know them it's the only chance you have.
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Originally posted by Psychic Missile View PostLet's consider the possibilities:
1) These men all wanted to meet this woman. They are all fools who think people walking by on a city sidewalk will stop and have a conversation.
2) These men found this women attractive. They are saying hello as a cat call, just like the other men in the video who chose different words.
Maybe some people need to learn the word "now is not the time"."The man from the yacht thought he was the first to find England; I thought I was the first to find Europe. I did try to found a heresy of my own; and when I had put the last touches to it, I discovered that it was orthodoxy."
GK Chesterton; Orthodoxy
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Originally posted by lilpixieofterror View PostI have no idea what their intentions are because I haven't been issued my standard mind reading pills and automatically know what they are thinking about and thinking of doing. Have you been issued your standard mind reading pills and automatically know the intentions of those men? Please, tell me where you got your mind reading pills from because I sure didn't get mine in the mail yet...
But you said it was rude to say hello to people who are your betters and know you're saying it isn't... can you produce some kind of a guide of when it is ok to say hello to somebody and when it isn't?
Here is a guide to saying hello: Don't say hello to women walking by as an expression of your attraction to her aka a cat call.
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Originally posted by Psychic Missile View PostI have my mind reading pills. They are called Iknowwhatnewyorkcultureislikeandalsoicanreadsocial situationscylic acid.
"I'm going to pretend I can read minds because I don't actually have an argument to speak of".
What are you talking about? Who's talking about people's betters?
Here is a guide to saying hello: Don't say hello to women walking by as an expression of your attraction to her aka a cat call."The man from the yacht thought he was the first to find England; I thought I was the first to find Europe. I did try to found a heresy of my own; and when I had put the last touches to it, I discovered that it was orthodoxy."
GK Chesterton; Orthodoxy
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