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-The universe begins to look more like a great thought than a great machine.
Sir James Jeans
-This most beautiful system (The Universe) could only proceed from the dominion of an intelligent and powerful Being.All variety of created objects which represent order and Life in the Universe could happen only by the willful reasoning of its original Creator, whom I call the Lord God.
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Ah, watching square_peg try to wiggle out of his previous arguments for homosexual marriage warms the cockles of my cold, dark heart.
Who is he to disapprove of two consenting adults getting married for any reason they want?
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Originally posted by Sea of red View PostMarriage is overrated. .That's what
- She
Without a clear-cut definition of sin, morality becomes a mere argument over the best way to train animals
- Manya the Holy Szin (The Quintara Marathon)
I may not be as old as dirt, but me and dirt are starting to have an awful lot in common
- Stephen R. Donaldson
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Originally posted by Bill the Cat View PostSorry, but no. Not even close. These guys wanted to celebrate their lifelong friendship, and to win a contest, so you have no right to tell them that their relationship is any less than the ones you have with the men in your life. Just because they lack the lust for each other doesn't mean that they love each other any less than is worthy of recognition.Atheism is the cult of death, the death of hope. The universe is doomed, you are doomed, the only thing that remains is to await your execution...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jbnueb2OI4o&t=3s
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Originally posted by seer View PostAnd why should a lack of a sexual relations deprive these good friends of the legal and economic benefits of marriage? We are defining marriage into meaningless.That's what
- She
Without a clear-cut definition of sin, morality becomes a mere argument over the best way to train animals
- Manya the Holy Szin (The Quintara Marathon)
I may not be as old as dirt, but me and dirt are starting to have an awful lot in common
- Stephen R. Donaldson
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Originally posted by Bill the Cat View PostExactly. In my wife's grandmother's retirement home, it was not uncommon to see two 80+ year olds get married just because they are lonely and tired of being alone. There is no sex involved, and very little romantic love. Just friendship and companionship. I suppose Peggie thinks that is a mockery too...
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Originally posted by Sparko View PostI think I will marry myself. I get along well with me, and the tax benefits would be nice.
Although that trust is specious...That's what
- She
Without a clear-cut definition of sin, morality becomes a mere argument over the best way to train animals
- Manya the Holy Szin (The Quintara Marathon)
I may not be as old as dirt, but me and dirt are starting to have an awful lot in common
- Stephen R. Donaldson
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Originally posted by square_peg View PostYou've completely missed the mark on this one. They're still being allowed to marry, and no one is legally objecting to that. So since no right is being denied to them, they by definition aren't being discriminated against. I and many others are personally disapproving of their marriage because they're doing so for an insincere and self-serving reason, and would also be personally disapproving of a man and woman getting married for insincere and self-serving reasons.
And all of this misses the point of what the "traditionalists" believe anyway: if marriage is, by definition, between a man and a woman, then denying that relationship to a man and a man (whether straight or gay) cannot be discrimination, because the very definition is not satisfied.I DENOUNCE DONALD J. TRUMP AND ALL HIS IMMORAL ACTS.
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Originally posted by Sparko View PostI think I will marry myself. I get along well with me, and the tax benefits would be nice.Atheism is the cult of death, the death of hope. The universe is doomed, you are doomed, the only thing that remains is to await your execution...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jbnueb2OI4o&t=3s
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Whiskey had the right of it:
Stanley Kurz warned in The National Review that Gay Marriage would redefine marriage. To both include polygamy and polyamory (more takers for the Muslim former than icky swinger latter I would think) and gay norms of marriage: two people who live together but largely have sex with others.
That prediction is coming true. USA Network’s “Satisfaction” is pushing just such an arrangement. A marriage, where the husband and wife love each other but sleep with other people. That sexual fulfillment and sexy needs are all, and matter the most. Not the family, not lifelong bonds. Just … sex, sex, sex. Love accrues ONLY to those good looking enough to get it through sex, and only as long as the looks last (which is not long). That’s the gay lifestyle in a nutshell.
This sentence from the article stands out:
Once monogamy is defined out of marriage, it will be next to impossible to educate a new generation in what it takes to keep companionate marriage intact.
Western society is based on the nuclear family. The monogamous marriage. Where love and resources are formed TOGETHER. In a pair. Widespread infedility, the gay norm in marriage, threatens this by all sorts of bastard children and other paramours draining resources away from the family.
In particular, this affects men and women in different ways. A man in such a union, marked by infidelity, runs a massive risk of spending all his money on another man’s child. Men react to this risk by investing none of their resources in children, and spreading their seed. This works well for Africans, who survive through the resources of women only, and for whom a family means a woman alone with two or more children by different fathers. The men compete to be the sexiest singers, dancers, fighters, etc. But contribute, and this is key, no resources to the family or the nation. They just compete to be sexy.
This kind of gay marriage norm, where married couples live together but sleep with others, is not stable. And worse, it destroys male incentives to create wealth. Creating wealth … to attract a mate who will conceive another man’s child? A non-starter. Creating wealth to … raise another man’s child? Another non-starter. Thus gay marriage norms mean single motherhood, far and wide.
HBO’s “Big Love” might have been the first show, and TLC’s “Sister Wives” the second, to push gay marriage norms, but USA’s “Satisfaction” is perhaps the most threatening.
Who is to blame? Women’s mothers. They are the ones who had the responsibility to speak the truth. To tell their daughters, “you won’t be hot forever.” To let them know they had to avoid the temptation of sex-greed, the hucksters, and that what works (for a while until they die old and alone) for gay men won’t work for them, no matter how “fabulous” their swishy ways seem.
It is this generation of mothers, the women Hillary! Clinton’s age and somewhat older and younger, who bear the burden. Women age 50-70. These are the ones who failed to warn their daughters, about reality. About getting old. About losing their looks. About being invisible to nearly all men, the way most men were invisible to them when they were young and hot.
And its easy to understand why. They themselves fell for it. And so for lack of virtue among women, Western society fell.
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Originally posted by Bill the Cat View PostAnd I have. Repeatedly. And you've given absolutely no objective reason to dismiss them.
Originally posted by Bill the CatThe Bible is what defines right and wrong in my worldview, and you don't get to redefine that. You can define it in your worldview to your heart's content, but we aren't talking about yours.
Then you are naïve.
Sorry, but no. Not even close. These guys wanted to celebrate their lifelong friendship, and to win a contest
so you have no right to tell them that their relationship is any less than the ones you have with the men in your life.
Just because they lack the lust for each other doesn't mean that they love each other any less than is worthy of recognition.
Originally posted by Quantum Weirdness View PostIn both those cases, there is a trivialization an mockery of marriage. All that analogy did was help me.Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow.--Isaiah 1:17
I don't think that all forms o[f] slavery are inherently immoral.--seer
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Originally posted by Sparko View PostAh, watching square_peg try to wiggle out of his previous arguments for homosexual marriage warms the cockles of my cold, dark heart.
Who is he to disapprove of two consenting adults getting married for any reason they want?
Originally posted by Zymologist View PostWell...I don't think I have. Sure, you're not arguing that they should be legally forbidden from marriage, but your disapproving of their marriage seems to be nothing more than discrimination (by the standards that that have been set for discrimination, anyway).
And all of this misses the point of what the "traditionalists" believe anyway: if marriage is, by definition, between a man and a woman, then denying that relationship to a man and a man (whether straight or gay) cannot be discrimination, because the very definition is not satisfied.Last edited by fm93; 09-12-2014, 03:17 PM.Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow.--Isaiah 1:17
I don't think that all forms o[f] slavery are inherently immoral.--seer
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Originally posted by Square_pegSo it's your personal contention that marriage should NOT be motivated by sincere love?
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Originally posted by square_peg View PostWhat do you mean by "standards that have been set for discrimination?" Personal disapproval of something isn't discrimination.
I actually agree with the logic here. I simply don't agree on the "man and a woman" part.
To be clear, I also disapprove of what these two guys are doing. I disapprove of it for the same reason you do (trivialization), but also because I believe it violates the very definition of marriage (a man and a woman). Since marriage is being/has been redefined in most modern contexts, I find it ironic that the very people who pushed for that are opposed to a further redefinition, which would make marriage even less exclusionary than it is now. And exclusivity seems to be otherwise strongly condemned by the very people who are now, ironically, arguing for it.I DENOUNCE DONALD J. TRUMP AND ALL HIS IMMORAL ACTS.
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