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What should a married Christian do when not ready to have children?
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Originally posted by Paprika View PostNo one here has denied that marriage is for the spouses. But marriage finds its fullest expression in the family, and its primary end is to the good of the child.
So, hypothetically, Couple A marries and has children, but one spouse dies after only 15 years; Couple B marries and has no children but remain happily married for over 50 years. All other things being equal, which couple had the "fuller" (your word) marriage in your opinion?
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Originally posted by Alsharad View PostMarriage is for those that are in it. I am in a marriage, ergo the marriage is for me (and my wife, of course, but she isn't here posting this).
Originally posted by JedidiahWell it is consistent with the Bible. Why do you put that down?
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Originally posted by Spartacus View PostI didn't flesh my own ideas out, either. I hope to do so in more detail sometime in the next few days, but for now, I'll just say that I think that the marital act-- in which the married couple, through an act of love, can create a new life-- is where the sacramentality of matrimony is most clearly displayed. It's not that the loving relationship is live-giving for the spouses, but that it can be wondrously and miraculously life-creating. It is because the married couple, through the act of sexual union, can participate in God's creation in a special way that married love has a special place and theological significance.
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Originally posted by Paprika View PostHow self-centred.
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Originally posted by Alsharad View PostScripture paints a pretty clear picture of who qualifies to be married. It is sacred because it was ordained by God as such. In any case, this isn't a long-winded explanation, I wanted to object to the statement that marriage is about having and raising children. I am not really concerned that a one-paragraph idea didn't fully explain or make a compelling case for the biblical standards of marriage. It was simply an idea (and a rough one at that) that I threw out against a statement that seems wrong in my experience and in my understanding of scripture.
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Originally posted by Paprika View PostWhich is incidentally the benefit that allows for the propagation of the species.
Marriage creates a special relationship, yes, but the relationship is primarily for the children.
Originally posted by SpartacusThere is more to this view of sentimentality than of sacramentality. Marriage is not sacramental primarily because a relationship of self-giving love images the Trinity. There is no clear reason under this view that the norms of exclusivity, heterosexuality, etc., should apply, not least since we are to love one another (not just our spouses) as Christ loved us.
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Originally posted by Catholicity View PostClearly paprika has never read theology of the body... I suggest that you have misunderstood the position of the Church entirely. Read about marriage reproduction the natural spacing of children and sexuality between spouses. Start with the Catechism. Start with the Catechism.
If you do disagree with the position I am setting forth you are free to demonstrate how it is wrong.
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I haven't read Theology of the Body either (but it's on my shelf, waiting patiently to be read).
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