Discuss. This is when bystanders don't get involved in a problem for various reasons, such as: not knowing the problem exists, expecting that someone else will solve the problem, not knowing what to do, etc.
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I thought you meant 'Get Smart' - the bystander effect being that anytime someone tries to kill Max, they hit a bystander.
3) Apathy
4) Convinced (irrationally) that 'someone else will do something'.
5) They weren't told to (if you direct a command rather than make a general plea the person is more likely to actually do what they are told. So instead of "someone call 911" say, "you, with the blue shirt, call 911!")
6) Fear of upsetting authority - the police might get mad if you don't wait for them - never mind that the guy is bleeding.
7) Unsure what to do (always give clear instructions because if they don't understand they will stand there like idiots).
8) The Uncut Pie Factor: weirdly, most people will avoid being the first. They will bypass a perfectly good uncut pie in favor of one with a slice missing even though both are on a buffet. Once someone 'cuts the pie' by acting, others will join in."He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - Jim Elliot
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A recent situation here in NZ, a woman was beaten up by a stranger in public. One by stander said he didn't intervene because he thought the bloke was her partner!!!!!!! Another said he was afraid of being charged with assault if he intervened.
http://www.nzherald.co.nz/crime/news...ectid=11188763"If you can ever make any major religion look absolutely ludicrous, chances are you haven't understood it"
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I remember this one from AP psych, when it comes to me it's usually cause I don't care or it's not my problem but I've tried moving away from being like that."Kahahaha! Let's get lunatic!"-Add LP
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Originally posted by Raphael View PostA recent situation here in NZ, a woman was beaten up by a stranger in public. One by stander said he didn't intervene because he thought the bloke was her partner!!!!!!! Another said he was afraid of being charged with assault if he intervened.
http://www.nzherald.co.nz/crime/news...ectid=11188763
Raphael, you in particular seem to have a habit of posting ambiguous crime stories like these and claiming in some vague way that this reflects on all humanity. No, it reflects on the degenerate human tribes where this is seen as a daily practice. I know South Africa is probably like that every day, but even there most of the white/Asian population, even among the poor, don't really act like this.
I recommend not reading these newspaper articles and especially not using the vague abstract terms like 'strangers' and 'bystanders,' as you seem to have overloaded the definition with too much explanatory power that's causing you not to see the world as it is. Use the enemy's words and read the enemy's literature on a daily basis, and you will begin to think the enemy's thoughts.
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Originally posted by Teallaura View PostI thought you meant 'Get Smart' - the bystander effect being that anytime someone tries to kill Max, they hit a bystander.
3) Apathy
4) Convinced (irrationally) that 'someone else will do something'.
5) They weren't told to (if you direct a command rather than make a general plea the person is more likely to actually do what they are told. So instead of "someone call 911" say, "you, with the blue shirt, call 911!")
6) Fear of upsetting authority - the police might get mad if you don't wait for them - never mind that the guy is bleeding.
7) Unsure what to do (always give clear instructions because if they don't understand they will stand there like idiots).
8) The Uncut Pie Factor: weirdly, most people will avoid being the first. They will bypass a perfectly good uncut pie in favor of one with a slice missing even though both are on a buffet. Once someone 'cuts the pie' by acting, others will join in.The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.
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There is one other reason as well that can be expressed in diverse fashion:
1) Not my duty.
2) Not my problem
3) Not my jurisdiction
4) I am not here to grant solution to every problem uninvolved with my being.
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Originally posted by themuzicman View PostIs this like the cheerleader effect?If it weren't for the Resurrection of Jesus, we'd all be in DEEP TROUBLE!
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Originally posted by Christianbookworm View PostI do wonder how common the opposite problem would be in real life? If people burn themselves out by trying to help everybody?"I am not angered that the Moral Majority boys campaign against abortion. I am angry when the same men who say, "Save OUR children" bellow "Build more and bigger bombers." That's right! Blast the children in other nations into eternity, or limbless misery as they lay crippled from "OUR" bombers! This does not jell." - Leonard Ravenhill
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Originally posted by KingsGambit View PostIt happens to plenty of idealistic people who make career choices like going into social work or inner city teaching.If it weren't for the Resurrection of Jesus, we'd all be in DEEP TROUBLE!
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