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  • Playing To Win

    What's a good attitude to challenges?

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    How do you approach a challenge? Let's plunge into the Deeper Waters and find out.

    I know someone here at the seminary who was sexually abused as a child and now has a blog helping others to overcome this. You can see her work here. I read a new post she had yesterday and I started thinking about my attitude as I went through my own divorce.

    Something I like about her blog is the idea of describing herself as a brave girl and to let the voice of a warrior be heard. That is a definitive choice on how to describe oneself. She had to make a deliberate choice at one point that she would face what she went through, be brave, and be a warrior and fight back.

    I wrote about this before in how I had to make a choice. It would be foolish to deny that the impact of the divorce when it hit me hurt me greatly. I would also be lying if I said it doesn't hurt me still every day, but I had to make a choice and I still have to make the choice. Will I be defeated by it or will I overcome it?

    In looking at Life Is A Game, this book has resonated with me because I had that attitude. Some might think it to be frivolous, but the reality is, it works. We are often told that attitude is a big factor in how one overcomes. If two people of relatively equal health get a cancer diagnosis and one is positive about overcoming and one isn't, all things being equal, the positive one is more likely to overcome it.

    If you're a gamer like me, you know the idea of what it is like to fight a boss. You enter an arena and all of a sudden this huge hulking monster that practically dwarfs you in ever way looms over you. In reality if this happened to us, most of us would probably be in a total panic. If you're a gamer though, you can get nervous but you also think, "All right. Let's do this." That just ups the challenge level. It actually makes it more fun.

    Why not live this way in reality more often? When a huge problem comes our way, why not see it as another challenge to overcome and we'll be the better for it? Add in also that in the real world, we have the promise of a God in our lives that if we love Him, all things will work for our good. I have referred to this in gamer terms as the ultimate cheat code.

    My friend had to make a deliberate choice that she would not be a victim all her life of abuse but would not only be an overcomer, but also help others to overcome. I had to make a decision that I would not be the victim of divorce. It's why I made it a motto of mine to "play to win" and why I am here at seminary working on a Master's and talking to a therapist here in person to help me with learning social skills. When I have friends here who help me with various things, these aren't just friends. These are teammates on the journey. These are party members who are coming alongside and helping me fight my battles. Of course, I help them when I can in return, but I can only speak of what it is like from my own perspective.

    To my friends who have helped me on the journey, thank you. I still have friends back in Tennessee and other parts of the world and I consider them helpers as well, and this includes my folks who I talk to every night on my Echo. To all of you out there also facing your own trial, play to win and while there's no guarantee with someone like cancer or anything else, you can still fight with all your might. We are meant to be warriors.

    In Christ,
    Nick Peters
    (And I affirm the virgin birth)
    How do you approach a challenge? Let’s plunge into the Deeper Waters and find out. I know someone here at the seminary who was sexually abused as a child and now has a blog helping others to overcome this. You can see her work here. I read a new post she had yesterday and I … Continue reading Playing To Win

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