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The Death Of A Reputation

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  • The Death Of A Reputation

    What harm can be done by one action?

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    How will you be remembered? Let’s plunge into the Deeper Waters and find out.

    This morning I woke up and saw on Facebook my memories and what do I see? I see right off the memory of the death of Ravi Zacharias. This was two years ago today.

    In the past, I really admired Ravi. When I first got into apologetics, something about his approach and intellectual reasoning was compelling to me. I am sure when I first heard him, his voice was a big draw as he spoke in a way that to me sounded very informed.

    I met him a number of times and he knew me well. Ravi was one of the most popular apologists of our time. There was even one time when I tried to get a job at RZIM. Looking back now, I am thankful that that did not happen.

    As many of you know, after Ravi’s death, a firm that had been hired by RZIM investigated Ravi and found that he had a horrid secret life. In this life, he sexually violated many many women. I remember reading the report about it late at night and I almost had to stop reading because I felt like I was going to be sick.

    Nowadays when I talk with people about him, it’s always a shame. We sometimes discuss if he really died as a Christian or not. I honestly don’t know. The fact that I even say that I find very saddening.

    There was a time in one of his talks I heard somewhere on CD where a lady went to see him who was skeptical of Christianity. On the way back, this lady was asked by the person driving her, “What did you think?” To this, she answered, “I wonder what his private life is like.” Unfortunately, we now know.

    Ravi did his indiscretions multiple times, but unfortunately for many of us, it only really takes one time. Someone in ministry can have one affair and that shuts down everything. All it can take is one moment of weakness and before too long, the end has come to one’s reputation.

    Some of you can think I am extreme in my ways in which I react around women to make sure I don’t fall into that trap. There’s a reason for that. Now that I am a single man again, I realize the temptation all the more. Not only that, I regularly have to give an explanation for my divorce whenever I go anywhere. Many of us who have gone down this path often are upset that it gets treated like the unforgivable sin.

    Ravi now sadly is a reminder of how a life can go downhill so easily. Not only that, many of us think about Ravi, myself included, and it’s easy to forget the true sorrow here, the numerous women that he violated. Odds are, we will never know their names, but many of them will have their impression of Christianity damaged by this man and could thus be cut off from the truest healing that they need.

    Watch your reputation, especially when it comes to sex, the number one area it seems that we fall at. There are many a skeptic of Christianity who does at least admire the character of Jesus in the Gospels. Bart Ehrman even says that Jesus is still one of his heroes. We are to live a life like that such that even if our opponents disagree with us intellectually, they could hopefully admit that we do practice what we preach truly.

    When your times comes, live such that you will be remembered with sadness that you’re gone and appreciation for how well you lived. It’s natural to wonder what happened when Ravi stood before God. It’s better to ask us what will happen when we do.

    In Christ,
    Nick Peters
    (And I affirm the virgin birth)
    How will you be remembered? Let’s plunge into the Deeper Waters and find out. This morning I woke up and saw on Facebook my memories and what do I see? I see right off the memory of the death of Ravi Zacharias. This was two years ago today. In the past, I really admired Ravi. … Continue reading The Death Of A Reputation

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    Only have people who absolutely don't want to mate be in ministry(it's gross!)? Except then married couples couldn't do ministry. And there's not a medical test to show a person would literally never do certain acts. Hmmm.
    If it weren't for the Resurrection of Jesus, we'd all be in DEEP TROUBLE!

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      Originally posted by Christianbookworm View Post
      Only have people who absolutely don't want to mate be in ministry(it's gross!)? Except then married couples couldn't do ministry. And there's not a medical test to show a person would literally never do certain acts. Hmmm.
      I think this is a mistake, as demonstrated by the Catholic Church...

      A possibly workable option would be insisting that everyone in ministry have an accountability partner who is privy to their doings in all of life, and can speak up if something seems off. In my experience, even the most upstanding of us will be tempted if we think no-one will ever know.

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        Pretty sure catholic priests aren't asexual. Merely celibate. Too bad there's not a test to see who medically lacks the temptation for certain activities. That's why I implied it couldn't work. Because anyone could falsely claim to be free of that temptation. Too bad wolves in sheep clothing lack a neon sign over their heads saying that they are in fact evil.
        If it weren't for the Resurrection of Jesus, we'd all be in DEEP TROUBLE!

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